ARE YOU LISTENING, REALLY LISTENING?

Photo/TaraRossThe apostles returned to Jesus from their ministry tour and told him all they had done and taught. Jesus said, “Let’s go off by ourselves to a quiet place and rest awhile.” He said this because there were so many people coming and going that Jesus and his apostles didn’t even have time to eat. Mark 6:30 NLT

Are you a good listener? In Mark 6:40, we see Jesus listening to His disciples with a discerning heart.

Jesus also taught His disciples importance of listening. In Matthew 11:15, Jesus asks his disciples, "Are you listening to me? Really listening? (MSG)

Frankly, I avoid confiding in someone that won't listen to me. When I lose eye contact with them, I know their mind is focused on something or someone besides me.

But as I look into the mirror of truth, I realize that I'm guilty of not listening, thinking only of myself. So, I'm asking God to forgive me for hurting others by focusing on my own needs, instead of theirs. And I'm choosing to forgive others, who have failed to listen to me when I needed their listening ear, because " … But if you refuse to forgive others, your Father will not forgive your sins" (Matthew 6:10 NLT)

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Are you listening, really listening?

 

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  • 16 Jan 2012 Elaine Marie Cooper wrote:
    Karen, Thank you for such an important post. I remember years ago in nursing school learning "Therapeutic Listening." Watching the person completely, listening with ears and watching with eyes for the whole communication. It made me realize what a bad listener I can be. Rather than listening, I was concentrating on what I needed (or thought I needed) to say. True listening is an art, and definitely makes one a better friend. A more Christ-like friend. Thanks for a great post!
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