Memories of Mother
Why do some dates remind us of certain people? Like today—July 22—I can’t help but think of my mother. Although Mother’s been gone for almost five years now, I still think of her on special days, like today (her birthday), Mother’s Day, Thanksgiving, and Christmas. I even think about her on my own birthday, which was also my parents’ wedding anniversary.
Memories. In fact, not many special events go by without a memory of Mother blowing through my mind. Sometimes those thoughts come like a gentle wind, and other times they still surprise me like a
Miles. Not too many holidays or special events passed in my life without mother being involved in some way. And even though we lived hundreds of miles away from her for over two decades, she continued to be involved in my family’s life until her death.
Connection. Although my siblings all scattered in different directions after they left home, and we were separated across the world at times, Mother kept us connected. And even when we were annoyed by her pressure to get together at times, she remained a unifying force in our family. She kept us informed of family news and events—and I miss that connection now.
Since Mother’s death, I do not often get to see my extended family. But when we can, we still stay in touch by phone, e-mail, or even internet social networks. I think Mother would be pleased—even though I do stay home in
Impact. On days like today, I realized how much of an impact my mother had on my life. Her memory still connects me with my family and my
Happy birthday, Mother!
Writing prompt
What legacy will you leave your family? How will your family and friends remember you?
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Stories about Mom always interest me. Even where I live, the only thing still sacred to most "rednecks" is their "Mama". Fastest way to get whipped here near Austin is to speak ill of someone's mother. I liked your memories.
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Ain't that the truth! [Thought I'd use a little of my SE Texas lingo here.] Thank ya, buddy!
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My friend, Bibbie, emailed me with a few comments about Mother.
"I enjoyed the thoughts you shared about your mom. She was a lady full of fun and laughter as I recall. Could get strict in a heart-beat, if needed...of course, we didn't need it much!
I don't remember the "Good Vibrations" deal, but I DO remember a few times where our mothers restricted our activities--like on our Senior trip to the beach. [Am I still bitter? Hum...] Yet, we both got married a few weeks after graduation. What was that all about?
Thanks for the memories. Send me one of your stories soon, okay?
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I remember that beach deal very well, too! "Hmmmm" is right! Will try to get you a story soon. I'm in the midst of doing what I like best...helping out with g-kids! Will have Jana's for a few days... in shifts.
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I totally understand postponing a writing project for grandkids--that's my life! But I kinda like it that way, don't you?
Counting my blessings, one-by-one.
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